Meet Megan Patiry | Author, Editor & Neuro-Linguistic Programming Practitioner

We had the good fortune of connecting with Megan Patiry and we’ve shared our conversation below.

Hi Megan, is there something you believe many others might not?
That “alignment” is more important than “hustle.” While it’s true that almost anyone can choose an idea or path to follow and “hustle and grind” their way to the top, I’ve come to realize that alignment with your end goals in regards to your work is so much more important. I’ve spent countless hours (mostly in my early twenties) hustling to make certain ideas come to life . . . only to reach success and suddenly realize that I couldn’t happily maintain that project or career path in the long run.

If there was a piece of advice I would give anyone, especially when they’re first starting out, it would be to make sure you are in complete alignment with what you are trying to create in the long run *before* you start hustling. Ask yourself, “Is this path in alignment with my personality, or am I just chasing an image?” Most success advice skips directly to the “you must hustle to bring your dreams to life” without encouraging making sure one is compatible with what they are about to hustle toward. I’d also encourage dipping your toes into the path you’re considering taking. Shadow someone who is in the industry for a week. Feel this thing out before you dive in, especially if you’re young. I feel this is more important than ever in the age of social media, where certain career lifestyles are glorified for their image . . . but that image isn’t exactly the full story.

This isn’t to say that I disagree with working hard. Of course, any idea takes work to bring about. But paradoxically, when you’re working hard toward something you’re in alignment with, the “hustle” won’t necessarily feel like a hustle. It may be exhausting at times, but that exhaustion will be tempered with the feeling of fulfillment and longevity.

Alright, so let’s move onto what keeps you busy professionally?
I published my first book just under two years ago, and even though I’m currently working on my next . . . calling myself an “author” still feels surreal. I grew up reading voraciously and always knew I wanted to write my own stories someday, but it was one of those dreams that is so close to you that you almost don’t recognize it when it manifests in the outer world.

I wouldn’t say it was an easy road to get here. I spent many, many years as a freelance writer making little money before I decided I needed to take a serious look at where my writing career was headed. And, because I knew my true goal with writing was to become an author, I knew I had to start putting my own words out into the world through social media, not simply just sharing what I was writing in technical articles. As a naturally reserved person, this was incredibly difficult, almost to the point of nausea! BUT, after several months of pushing myself to do it, I was suddenly contacted by a publishing company with an offer. I had several ideas for books in laying around and none of them were anywhere close to completion . . . but I agreed to a contract for one of the ideas anyway.

I understand it’s not always that easy for everyone, but I think it does highlight the power of putting your authentic voice or art forward. It’s incredibly easy to hide behind what we think others want to see (or, in my case, read) but in reality, we are dimming a light, our light, that was meant to shine a very specific way onto the world.

It’s also tempting to assert that we “aren’t ready” when the dream opportunity comes around. It would have been much easier for me to say no to that publishing offer; after all, I had nothing but an idea and no clue how I was going to flesh it out into a full book. I didn’t expect to be sending anything to a publishing house for at least another year. Yet, something in me said, “Don’t you dare say no.”

So, even though I was terrified, I moved ahead with the contract, which also included a monetary penalty if I failed to provide a manuscript in time or in adequate condition. The classic “no pressure” situation.

But at the end of the day . . . I finished it. And that process has made every decision I’ve made since much easier.

And that’s the thing about taking a risk and pushing through seas of fear–the confidence you gain on the other side carries you to even higher places.

Any places to eat or things to do that you can share with our readers? If they have a friend visiting town, what are some spots they could take them to?
Since Nashville is the country music capital, we’d obviously have to start with a visit to the Country Music Hall of Fame, where you’ll find walls lined with the classics, plus some of those we forget started in country music, like Taylor Swift.

Along with this, everyone who visits Nashville should know that it boasts a full-scale replica of the Parthenon. Yes, as in the Parthenon in Athens. There is even a giant statue of Athena inside.

For a beautiful view (and photo opportunity), consider walking across the John Seigenthaler Bridge for a full look at the cityscape. I’d recommend going at sunset.

As far as food, I’m a bit of a healthy foodie, so my favorite restaurants are the Copper Branch and the Wild Cow. Both offera ton of deeply flavorful vegan and vegetarian options.

As a place to hang out with a glass of wine or cocktail, Nashville Union Station is my favorite. It has a Grand Hall which is reminiscent of Europe, as well as a creative cocktail bar on the lower floor.

Who else deserves some credit and recognition?
There are so many incredible individuals who have supported me throughout the years–almost too many to count. My mother, first and foremost, for sacrificing so much for me and always providing me with a place to land, should I fall. Several university English professors and colleagues, who saw the sparks of potential in me when I was still too young and modest to act on them. Also, the books out there that upended my perception of what life and work could look like, one of them being the 4-Hour Workweek by Tim Ferris. Overall, the organizer of this fated path that has lead me to where I am now.

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